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Attorney Theresa D. Childress Nov. 28, 2024

When Might a Parent Be Awarded Sole Custody in Tennessee? 

As you may know, child custody issues can be one of the most challenging aspects of divorce and family law. In Tennessee, the family law court's primary focus is the best interests of the child. This often leads to questions about when a parent might be awarded sole custody. 

Understanding the circumstances and legal structure surrounding custody decisions is essential for any parent facing these difficult choices. In this blog, I’ll explore the factors that may lead to sole custody awards and how I can help you through this process.

Custody in Tennessee

In Tennessee, child custody can be categorized into two primary types: joint custody and sole custody. Joint custody means that both parents share decision-making responsibilities and physical custody of the child. Sole custody means that one parent has exclusive rights to make decisions about the child’s upbringing, including education, healthcare, and religious practices.

The court often prefers joint custody arrangements to promote ongoing relationships between children and both parents. However, there are circumstances where sole custody might be awarded. Here are some situations that may lead to sole custody:

  • One parent can provide a more stable environment.

  • The child has a stronger relationship with one parent.

  • There's evidence of domestic violence or abuse.

  • Substance abuse issues are present with one parent.

  • The child's wishes are taken into account.

Understanding these distinctions can help clarify how custody decisions are made in Tennessee.

Factors Influencing Sole Custody Decisions

Several factors can influence a court’s decision to award sole custody. Here are some of the most significant considerations:

Parent’s Ability to Provide a Stable Environment

The court will assess each parent's ability to provide a stable, nurturing environment for the child. Factors such as housing stability, financial security, and a consistent routine are critical. If one parent can demonstrate a more stable home environment, they may have a stronger case for sole custody.

Child’s Relationship with Each Parent

The nature of the child's relationship with each parent plays a significant role in custody decisions. Courts consider which parent has historically been the primary caregiver or has been more involved in the child’s life. A strong, positive relationship between the child and one parent can influence the court's decision.

History of Domestic Violence or Abuse

If there's evidence of domestic violence or abuse by one parent, the court may be inclined to award sole custody to the other parent. Tennessee law prioritizes the child's safety, and any history of violence can significantly affect custody determinations.

Substance Abuse Issues

Substance abuse problems can be a critical factor in custody cases. If one parent has a history of drug or alcohol abuse that impacts their ability to care for the child, the court may view this as a reason to award sole custody to the other parent.

Child’s Wishes

In Tennessee, if the child is deemed mature enough (usually around 12 years of age or older), their wishes may be considered in custody decisions. While the child’s preference isn’t the sole determining factor, it can carry significant weight, particularly if the child expresses a clear desire to live with one parent.

Relocation of a Parent

If one parent plans to move far away, it could impact custody arrangements. The court may decide that it’s in the child's best interests to remain in the current home environment, which may lead to a sole custody award for the other parent.

By understanding these factors, you can better prepare for what to expect during custody proceedings. Each case is unique, and it's essential to focus on the specifics of your situation.

Why You Need an Attorney

When facing custody disputes, having a knowledgeable family lawyer by your side is crucial. As your attorney, I’m here to provide aggressive representation to clients in Shelby County, Tennessee. I’m committed to making sure my clients feel heard, supported, and understood throughout the process. Here’s how I help:

  • Building relationships: I focus on creating a strong relationship with my clients, making sure you feel comfortable sharing your concerns.

  • Individualized care: Each case is approached with tailored strategies, taking into account the specific needs of my clients.

  • Strong advocacy: I fight diligently for my clients' rights and aim to defend them exceptionally.

By working closely with my firm, you can overcome this challenging time with confidence. 

The Custody Modification Process

Sometimes circumstances change after a custody arrangement has been established. If a parent believes that the current arrangement isn’t in the child's best interests, they may seek a custody modification.

To pursue a modification, the parent must show that there has been a significant change in circumstances since the original custody order was issued. Here are examples of changes that might warrant a modification:

  • A parent's substance abuse problem has worsened.

  • The other parent has engaged in abusive behavior.

  • The child has developed a strong preference for living with one parent.

Be sure to reach out if you have any questions about your circumstances. I can assist you in understanding whether you have valid grounds for a modification and guide you through the legal process.

Preparing for Custody Hearings

If your case involves a custody hearing, preparation is key. Here are some steps you can take to make sure you’re ready:

  1. Gather evidence: Collect documentation that supports your case. This may include school records, medical records, or evidence of your involvement in the child's life.

  2. Request character references: Obtain letters or statements from individuals who can attest to your parenting skills and the relationship you have with your child.

  3. Consult with an attorney: Discuss your case thoroughly with your attorney.to better understand what to expect during the hearing and how to present your case effectively.

  4. Focus on the child’s best interests: Throughout the process, it’s crucial to keep the focus on what’s best for your child. Courts are more likely to favor parents who demonstrate a commitment to their child’s well-being.

By following these steps, you’ll be better prepared to face the challenges of a custody hearing. Preparation is essential for presenting your case effectively.

Understanding the Court's Decision

After the custody hearing, the family law court will issue a ruling. This decision will include factors considered, such as the best interests of the child and the circumstances of each parent. Always keep in mind that if the court grants sole custody to one parent, the other parent may still have visitation rights unless deemed inappropriate. 

Here’s what you can expect after the decision:

  • Clear explanation: Your attorney will explain the court's ruling and how it affects both you and your child.

  • Next steps: If you have visitation rights, your attorney will help you understand those arrangements.

  • Modification possibility: If circumstances change in the future, you’ll have options for seeking modifications to the custody arrangement.

By understanding the family law court's decision, you can better traverse the next steps in your custody journey.

The Importance of Communication

Effective communication between co-parents is vital, especially after a custody arrangement has been established. Open lines of communication can reduce conflict and help both parents focus on their child's best interests.

However, if communication breaks down or becomes hostile, it may be necessary to involve legal representation. Here are some communication tips for co-parents:

  • Stay respectful: Always communicate with respect, even in challenging situations.

  • Use neutral language: Avoid inflammatory language that could escalate conflicts.

  • Focus on the child’s needs: Keep discussions centered on what's best for your child.

  • Document everything: Keep records of communications, especially if disputes arise.

By prioritizing effective communication, you can create a more positive co-parenting experience for you and your child.

Reach Out for a Consultation

Your rights always matter. If you’re facing a custody dispute or want to modify an existing arrangement, contact me, Attorney Theresa D. Childress, for aggressive representation. I offer personalized family law support in Memphis, Tennessee, or throughout Shelby County, including Memphis, Lenox, Nonconnah, Germantown, Bartlett, Arlington, Millington, and beyond. 


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